I’m Alex, and I used to have trouble ejaculating during sex. Phew! I’ve admitted it…..Well, what am I doing here? Simply this: I started this blog so I can share with other men the treatment program that cured my own retarded ejaculation. If you’d rather go straight to the program for retarded ejaculation treatment than read any more of my thoughts, or listen to my ramblings, simply click this link.

There isn’t a lot of information on the Internet about retarded ejaculation – also known as delayed ejaculation – though you might have seen one or two of my other blogs on the subject. I was well into my adult years before I actually managed to find a cure for my retarded ejaculation. In fact, I was 39 before I was able to ejaculate during sexual intercourse with a woman. Maybe, if I’d seen a doctor sooner, I could’ve enjoyed many more years of intercourse, but I’m not looking back with regret. I’m now 44, and having best sex I’ve ever had. I’m told that the average duration of intercourse from penetration to ejaculation is about 3 minutes, so I’m happy to say that I can actually go on for about 5 or 10 minutes depending on how aroused I am.

How difficult was it to find a treatment? Well, the power of the Internet is remarkable, and a man who is now a good friend of mine, Rod Phillips, a sexual therapist with over 12 years’ experience in treating male sexual dysfunction, was one of the first therapists to put treatment programs for ejaculation difficulties online. I discovered his delayed ejaculation treatment five years ago, and I’ve never looked back since.

His Retarded Ejaculation Treatment Program works by finding ways to ensure that you’re properly aroused before you have sex. What I’d never realised was that many times when I started to have sex with a woman, I actually wasn’t very aroused, I wasn’t very much into the experience. Indeed, I was much more in my own head, relying on my fantasy to keep me going. Unfortunately that wasn’t enough to enable me to ejaculate. That can happen for a variety of reasons, including resentment, issues around sex, difficulties between you and your partner, even a low sex drive… They’re all explained in Rod Phillips’ excellent 50 page e-book which forms the basis of his treatment program. You be glad to know that although half of his e-book is devoted to the various reasons why delayed ejaculation can happen, you don’t necessarily need to know all that stuff before you start working on the treatment and cure for your ejaculation problems.

Having said that, I thought it was very interesting to read all the ins and outs of retarded ejaculation and its treatment. What struck me in particular was his explanation of how some men can be totally dependent on fantasy to become sexually aroused – I think that was me! And the problem is, fantasies alone are not really enough to sustain your erection and arousal during intercourse as you get older. You have to be aroused in your body…..

Anyway, the treatment program consists of a whole series of exercises which are fun to do, don’t require much effort – although they do require a certain level of commitment – and they are great for establishing real intimacy and connection between you and your partner (again, this is one of the things that’s often lacking in a couple where the man is unable to ejaculate). He describes the treatment in great detail; it starts with relaxation and sensual touching exercises, and carries on all the way through to mutual masturbation, oral sex and intercourse, giving you simple techniques for mutually satisfying sex with a powerful, pleasurable ejaculation a few minutes after penetration.

I particularly like the way he emphasizes that sex is about your pleasure and you don’t have to feel responsible for your partner’s satisfaction – again, that was always a big deal for me: feeling responsible for my partner’s orgasm. (I’m so over that now!)

So there we are, a treatment program for retarded ejaculation which actually works (Rod Phillips claims that it works for 96% of the men who undertake it) and which also has a money back guarantee so it’s risk-free for you. As you probably realise by now, I’m a real fan of the program, hardly surprising when you consider that it actually allowed me to express my true masculine sexuality and gave me massive sexual self-confidence again. Check it out here: retarded ejaculation cure.

Best of luck, Alex M.

Welcome to this website. Presumably you’re here because you have difficulty reaching orgasm and ejaculating during sex, and perhaps even during masturbation. As you may know, this condition is called retarded ejaculation. Treatment is simpler than you think! In fact, on this blog, I’m going to explain the treatment program that helped me get over my own retarded ejaculation. If you want to get this treatment immediately, without reading any more of my waffling, simply click here: treatment for retarded ejaculation.

(Having trouble ejaculating during sex - or not being able to come at all – is also known as delayed ejaculation, and these two terms mean exactly the same thing.)

I know just how much of a problem retarded ejaculation can be, and I know how difficult finding retarded ejaculation treatment can be, because until I was 39 I was never able to ejaculate during sexual intercourse – no matter how long it went on for.  Imagine that. Struggling with sex from 19 to 39 – twenty years not being unable to ejaculate in a woman (well, I might have managed to come during sex once or twice, but you get the picture).

Now, I’m enjoying sex enormously, in a way I once despaired of ever achieving,  and I want to spread the word!

My friend Rod Phillips has worked with hundreds of men over the last 12 years who haven’t been able to climax normally during sex. And I want to tell you clearly and directly, right now, that it was his program which helped me discover how to enjoy normal sex. Rod says: “I believe over 96% of men who have difficulty reaching orgasm and ejaculating during sexual intercourse can be cured with the right treatment. I know this because over the years that I’ve been offering this treatment, both in person and on the Internet, to men who haven’t been able to ejaculate at all, or only with great difficulty, I’ve achieved a 96% success rate.”

Well, that may not convince you, but as a man who once had great difficulty with sex, I can honestly say, based on my own experiences, that no matter how desperate you might be right now, no matter how bad you’re feeling about not being able to “release” naturally during intercourse, and no matter how this may be affecting your relationship, the treatment program for delayed ejaculation on this website offers you probably the greatest chance of curing retarded ejaculation you’ll find without paying hundreds or thousands of dollars to a sex therapist for one-to-one treatment. Please just think about that for a moment.

I’m going to reproduce what Rod wrote to me early in my treatment (reproduced with his permission): “It’s often said that delayed ejaculation treatment is a complicated matter. That’s only true up to a point; in my experience, although there are many possible causes of retarded ejaculation, it’s usually much simpler than you might think to cure, because in each man, there’s usually a fairly specific cause.”

He continued: “This might be harsh masturbation as a teenager, which has conditioned a man’s penis only to respond to intense stimulation, which you simply don’t get during oral sex or intercourse. Or it might be a man simply isn’t aroused sexually when he makes love, perhaps because he’s not aware of his own level of sexual arousal, or perhaps because his partner doesn’t know how to stimulate him, or perhaps because he doesn’t really want to be having sex with his partner. So, at least in some cases, treatment will depend on certain changes taking place in a man’s  relationship. In my experience, it’s rare that a relationship breaks down because of retarded ejaculation, even when the root cause of the man’s difficulty in reaching climax is explored: it’s much more common for people to end up with much more open and honest communication and a better relationship.

However, you do need to be clear about the possibility that there could be changes to the “status quo” in your life, because delayed ejaculation is often the external symptom of some pretty intense feelings — which might include anger, sexual shame, sexual guilt, resentment or conflict. The good news is that you’d be amazed how often these feelings melt away when they’re exposed to the light and discussed openly.

In most cases, delayed ejaculation can be cured quite easily with a simple program of exercises which are designed to increase a man’s sexual arousal and give him the impetus that he needs to much more easily reach the level of arousal needed before he can ejaculate during sexual activity… And if this seems slightly puzzling or difficult to understand right now, don’t worry! Everything will become clear when you read the retarded ejaculation treatment program — which, by the way, I’ve written myself, based on my experiences treating sexual problems in men for many years.”

All I can say at this point is that I can vouch for its effectiveness. It worked for me, and I believe it will work for you. Check out Rod’s program here: www.male-orgasmic-disorder.com